Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts

Monday, May 14, 2012

Mother's Day with the Best Husband Ever

I had a fantastic Mother's Day this year! It is all thanks to my totally amazing husband .  He has always made Mother's Day special for me, but this year with 5 kids, it was appreciated more than ever. He had to work on Saturday, but once he was home, he told me it was my time. I took a nap while he took care of the kids. Yesterday morning, he made breakfast for everyone, like he usually does on the weekends. But he let me sleep in and come downstairs when breakfast was ready. Usually while he makes breakfast I feed the baby or get the kids dressed or straighten up or wash dishes. This time, I just laid in bed. It was great!

Pirate called me to come down to breakfast and said there was a surprise. When I got to the table, there was a gift bag with a card next to my plate. We usually don't get each other gifts for holidays. We usually  just get what we need for ourselves and save the rest to use on the kids' birthdays and things for them. I was surprised and excited to see a gift on the table for me. I ate my delicious breakfast first (pays to have married a chef!) then he cleared the dishes for me to open my present. He had the camera ready, so I knew it had to be something good. I had specific instructions to read the card then reach into the bag immediately. I did what I was told, and at the bottom of the card was a quote from part of the Katy Perry song that said "That's what you get for wakin up in" with a big arrow next to it, my cue to reach into the bag. I pulled out a travel brochure for Las Vegas!

To say I was excited would be the understatement of the year. I was ecstatic! You couldn't wipe the grin off my face! So here's the story on the Vegas trip.  It's not exactly a Mother's Day present, although it was a Mother's Day surprise. Our 10th anniversary is in October, and we've been talking for a few weeks about how we should go somewhere to celebrate. We decided that it would be our gift to each other for all the holidays and birthdays where we never exchange gifts. We talked about a bunch of places, but I kept going back and looking at info on Vegas. Last week, we decided it was too expensive so we started looking at places closer to home and less money. I didn't know it, but my husband met with a travel agent to get info on a trip to Vegas and talked to my mom about staying with the kids for our trip. He was going to try to keep it a surprise until our anniversary but said he couldn't do it. He wanted us to be excited about it together :) So now, we have something fun to look forward to for the next 5 months! A trip to Vegas is huge for us because we've never been off the East Coast. We didn't go anywhere very exciting for our honeymoon, and we've never taken a big trip together. This anniversary is a big one - 10 years, and considering we have half as many kids... we deserve to take an awesome trip together! Needless to say, my Mother's Day was off to a fabulous start!

It just got better as the day continued. My husband did everything. I really wanted that, but felt guilty for thinking that I wanted an entire day to do nothing. I know how hard I work as a mom. I know how much I want a break. But I feel guilty because I know how hard my husband works at two jobs all week long, not to mention the fact that he had to work all day Saturday. So I felt selfish hoping I could get a day to myself. But that's exactly what I got. I didn't change a single diaper all day! That in itself is amazing. It was a good day for a diaper pass too. Donkey, Trouble, and 5 all pooped twice. And both of Trouble's dumps were in underwear. I didn't have to deal with any of it! Seriously, the best feeling in the world!

I needed a few things at the store, so I took Princess with me to Target. She had a gift card so I told her she could pick out something for herself. We did some shopping, then went to lunch. She was happy to get away from the boys for a while, and I was happy to get some time with the girl who gave me my first Mother's Day.

When we got home, my husband made me a margarita and we sat out on the deck talking about our trip while the little guys were napping. My husband had done laundry, fed the kids lunch and cleaned up afterward, and he got all the little guys down for their naps. As if that wasn't enough, he fixed a couple things around the house. When the boys started waking up, he told me to go relax, and while I parked myself on the couch with the iPad, he got everyone up, fed the baby a bottle, and set the other kids up with snacks outside. Later, he made dinner, cleaned up from dinner, gave all the kids their baths, fed the baby, put all the kids to bed, ran to the grocery store, ran the dishwasher, made Princess's lunch for today, and set the coffee for this morning. When he was at the store, he got me a piece of my favorite cake to have while we watched our shows and he folded the laundry. Seriously, what did I do to deserve such an amazing husband?? I went the entire day without changing a diaper, folding laundry, making a bottle, cleaning up a snack, or serving a meal. I felt like the luckiest mom in the world! This was the most special Mother's Day ever!


Me with my loves - at least 3 are looking at the camera!


Friday, May 11, 2012

Favorites of the Week

Quotes


"It's a good thing I didn't have to go to school today because I need to finish the Fire Fly level on my Batman game." - Pirate

Hearing Trouble say "Fucks". Having him repeat it. Then realizing he is saying "Fox" because they are doing 'OX' words on SuperWhy. Maybe I need my hearing checked. Or he needs a Phonics lesson.

Me: "Did you touch the pee that spilled on the floor?" Trouble: "No. I just splashed my foot in it."


Other happenings

Cleaning up the puddle of pee on the bathroom floor when Trouble tried to dump his own potty seat into the toilet.

Taking apart two sofa pillows to find the microscopic pirate swords Trouble hid from Pirate.

Cutting toenails on stinky clammy feet. Seriously one of the grossest Mommy jobs out there.

Cleaning up baby pee and poop when 5 simultaneously did both all over the changing table.

Listening to the fight over fruit snacks: Scooby Doo vs. Cars

Going to Pirate's Mother's Day party. His present says that he loves me for buying him toys and shirts. Works for me.

Aunt Na's Monday

Aunt Na is my sister. Her day on Monday was funnier than anything that happened here this week. Hopefully she doesn't mind me sharing. Here is Aunt Na's Facebook status summing up her Monday:
summary of my day...Went to work in a hat because I tried to save money by dying my own hair and the result was a gorgeous shade of neon yellow, found out that my DNA is MIA b/c the lab had no record of me being there, Nate got sick but I couldn't go home b/c I have no more paid leave, I hit a giant goose on the ride home, yet am so stupid I misidentified it as a swan, paid $250 to "fix" my highlighter head (remember I was trying to save money) and now I have red hair.
I almost peed my pants as she would call me throughout the day telling me about what was going on with her. I also had the pleasure of being on the phone with her when she hit the goose, which she also referred to as a bird, duck, and peacock. In case you're wondering, her son was better that evening, her hair looks great, her DNA was found, and the giant bird is now in birdie heaven.


As always, never a dull moment in this house of chaos!

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Children Are Watching

This poem was a part of my Mother's Day gift from Pirate's school party.  It's so sweet and made me cry, so I had to share.

** I'm not into plagiarism, I swear. The Birthday Paper from junior year in high school taught me how to correctly cite my sources, and I carried that knowledge through many research papers in college. There is no author listed on this poem. I even googled it to find the author and only found 'Author Unknown'. Feel free to share if you know who wrote this.



Children Are Watching

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator,
and I immediately wanted to paint another one.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw you make my favorite cake for me,
and I learned that little things can be special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick,
and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I felt you kiss me good night,
and I felt loved and safe.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it,
and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.

When you thought i wasn't looking,
I saw tears come from your eyes
and I learned that sometimes things hurt,
but it's alright to cry.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I learned most of life's lessons
that I need to know to be a good and
productive person when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw you feed a stray cat,
and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I heard you say a prayer,
and I knew there is a God I could always talk to
and I learned to trust in God.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw you give your time and money to help people who had nothing,
and I learned that those who have something should give to those who don't.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw how you handled your responsibilities,
even when you didn't feel good,
and I learned that I would have to be responsible when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I saw that you cared and I wanted to
be everything that I could be.

When you thought I wasn't looking,
I looked at you and wanted to say,
Thanks for all the things I saw...
When you thought I wasn't looking!